{"id":9263,"date":"2026-05-15T00:17:22","date_gmt":"2026-05-14T22:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/advent-ug.org\/answers\/prykmety-pered-smertiu\/"},"modified":"2026-05-15T00:17:35","modified_gmt":"2026-05-14T22:17:35","slug":"prykmety-pered-smertiu","status":"publish","type":"answers","link":"https:\/\/advent-ug.org\/en\/answers\/prykmety-pered-smertiu\/","title":{"rendered":"What are the real signs before death, and what does the Bible say about them?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>\u201cSigns before death\u201d is a popular topic around which much fear and imagination have accumulated.<\/b> Here you will hear that \u201cthe clock fell,\u201d \u201cthe mirror broke,\u201d \u201ca bird flew into the house,\u201d or \u201cthe candle went out.\u201d Most such signs are a Slavic pre-Christian heritage, unrelated to the Bible. But there are also real physiological changes that happen to a person before death \u2014 it is useful to know them so as not to be afraid and to know how to be present. Here we discuss both real signs and the biblical perspective on death, and whether it is worth \u201cbelieving in signs.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>What the Bible says about \u201csigns of death\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Plainly and honestly: the Bible does not give a list of \u201csigns\u201d that warn of someone\u2019s death. Most of what people call \u201csigns\u201d is <b>superstition, not biblical teaching<\/b>. The Bible directly warns against divination and attempts to predict the future through signs in nature:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cFor these nations, which you will dispossess, listened to soothsayers and diviners; but as for you, the Lord your God has not appointed such for you.\u201d <cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Deuteronomy+18:14&amp;version=UKR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Deut. 18:14<\/a><\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cThe clock stopped\u201d = a bad sign \u2014 this is not a biblical statement. It is folk \u201cknowledge\u201d that the Bible does not confirm. If you suddenly noticed that something is not right with your loved one \u2014 these are not \u201csigns,\u201d this is <b>God-given attentiveness in a concerned child<\/b>, who is worried. This is normal and human.<\/p>\n<h2>Real physiological signs that death is near<\/h2>\n<p>If a person is seriously ill or elderly, changes really do occur in the body. It is useful to know them so you can be present at the right moment. These are not \u201csigns,\u201d but medical facts:<\/p>\n<h3>1\u20132 weeks before death<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Appetite decreases; the person eats and drinks less.<\/li>\n<li>Sleep increases; drowsiness appears during the day.<\/li>\n<li>Withdrawal \u2014 the person is less interested in television, news, and little things.<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes \u2014 talking about \u201clong-past\u201d events, as if the person is \u201creviewing\u201d life.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>1\u20133 days before<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>The skin becomes colder, especially the hands and feet.<\/li>\n<li>Pulse and blood pressure decrease.<\/li>\n<li>Breathing changes \u2014 sometimes shallow, sometimes deeper; pauses appear (so-called \u201cCheyne-Stokes breathing\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes \u2014 a characteristic \u201cgurgling\u201d in the throat (accumulation of secretions).<\/li>\n<li>Consciousness becomes clouded; the person reacts little to external sounds, but hearing is often preserved until the end.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>In the final hours<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>The skin takes on a grayish-blue tint, especially on the extremities.<\/li>\n<li>The eyes may look half-empty, and the gaze does not focus.<\/li>\n<li>Breathing becomes less frequent and irregular.<\/li>\n<li>Sometimes there is calm after anxiety: the person seems to \u201clet go.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are normal processes. Knowing this, the family does not panic but is able to be present consciously: hold a hand, speak softly, read the Bible, pray.<\/p>\n<h2>What to say to a dying person<\/h2>\n<p>Hearing is the last sense to shut down. Even if the person no longer responds, they often still hear. What is worth saying:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>\u201cI am here.\u201d<\/b> Simple. Without reproaching them with \u201cwhy are you leaving.\u201d A simple fact that gives support.<\/li>\n<li><b>\u201cI love you.\u201d<\/b> Not \u201cdon\u2019t go,\u201d but \u201cI love you.\u201d That is the difference: one holds back, the other lets go with dignity.<\/li>\n<li><b>\u201cI forgive you. Please forgive me too.\u201d<\/b> If there was anything difficult in the relationship, this is the moment to let it go. If not, it is still good to say these words.<\/li>\n<li><b>\u201cWith God, it will be easy for you.\u201d<\/b> If the person believes, this is a reminder of the promises. If they were not a believer, this is the last chance to hear the name of Christ spoken with love, not forced.<\/li>\n<li><b>Read Psalm 22 or Psalm 90.<\/b> Softly, not to \u201cachieve\u201d something, but like a lullaby.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>What NOT to do<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Do not argue with doctors at the bedside.<\/b> The sick person hears. They do not need a tense atmosphere.<\/li>\n<li><b>Do not discuss inheritance, money, or the funeral.<\/b> This is not the moment.<\/li>\n<li><b>Do not \u201cforce them to eat.\u201d<\/b> The body is no longer accepting food\u2014this is not \u201clost hope,\u201d it is physiology.<\/li>\n<li><b>Do not remember the body as \u201comens for the future.\u201d<\/b> The final hours are about the person, not a \u201csign.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why we are afraid of death<\/h2>\n<p>The Bible honestly acknowledges that death is frightening. It is not minimized by the word \u201ctransition.\u201d It is <b>an enemy<\/b>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe last enemy that shall be destroyed is death.\u201d <cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1+Corinthians+15:26&amp;version=UKR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1 Cor 15:26<\/a><\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But the Bible also says that Jesus <b>defeated this enemy<\/b>. Through His death and resurrection, death lost its final power:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cAnd when this corruptible has put on incorruption, and this mortal has put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written: Death is swallowed up in victory! O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?\u201d <cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1+Corinthians+15:54-55&amp;version=UKR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1 Cor 15:54\u201355<\/a><\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>For the person who has believed in Christ, death is <b>not the final station<\/b>. It is sleep until the moment of resurrection at the Second Coming (1 Thess 4:13\u201317). This is not \u201ccomforting words\u201d\u2014it is a fact that changes the whole attitude toward the end.<\/p>\n<h2>Why superstitious \u201comens\u201d are dangerous<\/h2>\n<p>It seems harmless\u2014\u201cdon\u2019t sit in seat 13\u201d or \u201cdon\u2019t whistle in the house.\u201d But living regularly \u201cunder omens\u201d means:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Anxiety becomes a habit.<\/b> Every little thing starts being interpreted as a \u201csign.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><b>God is replaced by \u201cforces.\u201d<\/b> Instead of trusting God, there is an attempt to \u201cread\u201d fate from nature.<\/li>\n<li><b>Peace disappears.<\/b> The Bible promises \u201cthe peace of God, which surpasses all understanding\u201d (Phil 4:7). Omens give the opposite.<\/li>\n<li><b>This is a form of paganism.<\/b> The pre-Christian tradition of \u201cspeaking with nature as with gods\u201d is not compatible with biblical faith in the one God.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The best \u201cprotection\u201d from such anxiety is not a new omen, but a reminder to yourself: <b>my life and death are in God's hands<\/b>. Not in clocks, mirrors, or birds.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\"In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world!\" <cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John+16:33&amp;version=UKR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">John 16:33<\/a><\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>If a loved one will soon die \u2014 what should you do<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Be there.<\/b> Not only physically \u2014 with your heart. Do not leave him or her alone in fear.<\/li>\n<li><b>Do not hide the truth from him or her \u2014 but do not \"drop it harshly\" either.<\/b> If the person asks, \"Am I going to die?\" do not lie, \"Of course not, you'll live another 30 years.\" Say: \"The doctors say there is not much time. But I am with you every moment.\"<\/li>\n<li><b>Ask what matters to him or her.<\/b> \"What do you want to say?\" \u2014 a question that opens the way for final conversations.<\/li>\n<li><b>Pray, if the person is willing.<\/b> It does not have to be long. \"Lord, be with him\/her.\"<\/li>\n<li><b>Take care of yourself.<\/b> While caring for someone who is dying, it is easy to burn yourself out. Find people who can relieve you.<\/li>\n<li><b>Remember: death is not the end of the relationship with the one who has fallen asleep in God.<\/b> It is a pause.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>What will be \"there\"<\/h2>\n<p>The Bible gives a clear answer \u2014 and it removes fear. For a person who died in faith, this is what will happen: he or she fell asleep \u2014 and will awaken at the moment when Christ returns. It is described directly:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\"For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the Archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.\" <cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1+Thessalonians+4:16&amp;version=UKR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1 Thess. 4:16<\/a><\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>That is: between closing the eyes and opening them \u2014 subjectively, an instant. Objectively \u2014 the time until the Second Coming. For those who remain \u2014 anxiety. For those who departed in faith \u2014 a moment.<\/p>\n<h2>Questions about someone who is dying<\/h2>\n<p>If you are facing a specific situation right now \u2014 a loved one is in critical condition, and you do not know what to say or how to hold yourself together \u2014 ask our AI assistant below. 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